TLC Family Resource Center and fellow members of the Greater Sullivan County Public Health Advisory Council want you to know that April is STI (Sexually Transmitted Infection) Awareness Month. We are participating in GYT (Get Yourself Tested), a national campaign focused on helping young people take control of their sexual health.
 
STIs are infections passed from one person to another during vaginal, anal, and oral sex. They're really common, and lots of people who have them don't have any symptoms. STIs can be dangerous, but the good news is that getting tested is no big deal, and most STIs are easy to treat.
 
So why don’t more people get tested? Many don’t realize that they need to get tested, but anyone who has ever had any kind of sex could get an STI. You can’t tell by looking at someone if they have one or not. You also can’t tell if *you* have an STI based on whether you have symptoms or not.
 
Getting tested is important not only to avoid serious, lifelong health problems, but also to put your body first, whether you’re in a relationship or not — and it is usually quick, easy, and painless. Rapid HIV tests can provide results in as little as 20 minutes from a simple swab along your gums and many STI tests just require peeing in a cup. Results are confidential, and all STIs, even HIV, are treatable if not curable.
 
While STIs tend to affect young people most often, it’s never too late to take charge of your health. It’s always a good idea to talk about using protection, like condoms and/or dental dams, and to get tested.
 
Getting an STI or having a partner with an STI is extremely common and is not something anyone should be stigmatized for. Having an STI is also not the end of your sex life, and it’s nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed about. Your STI status doesn’t make you “clean” or “dirty.” What’s most important is making sure you have the facts — no matter what your status is.
 
Having an open and honest conversation about STIs early on can bring you closer to a partner; it doesn’t have to be uncomfortable. You can start by saying, “I'm a little nervous to bring this up...but I want us to be healthy and I think it's important.” Your partner may actually be relieved to hear this and glad to learn that getting tested isn’t a big deal. 
 
Here in Sullivan County, Planned Parenthood provides low cost or no cost testing in Claremont. It also serves residents at its clinic in White River Junction. Helpful videos on how to discuss STIs are available online at www.ppnne.org.

STI prevention is a core part of our County’s public health care initiative and education efforts. We believe, as does Planned Parenthood, that everyone — regardless of race, disability, sexual orientation, gender identity or expression, income, country of origin, faith, and immigrant or refugee status, deserves a healthy, shame-free, and safe sex life. And access to safer sex — including tools, testing, and treatment — and education about STIs is the best way to ensure that people of all ages stay healthy and safe. Look for new containers of free condoms and dental dams in our offices as well as many other locations throughout the community this spring.

We hope you get yourself some free protection, get yourself talking, get yourself tested, get yourself treated, and keep yourself healthy.

By Sarah Breisch

March was officially recognized as National Reading Month by the National Education Association in 1998. This month was chosen because March 2 is the birthday of Theodor Geisel, better known to most of us by his pen name, Dr. Seuss. The name Dr. Seuss has become almost synonymous with children’s literature, and you will find his charming illustrations of unusual creatures on everything from lunch boxes and pajamas to Band-Aids and, of course, books.

While we know that reading is something we should engage in daily, recognizing its importance through celebration can be a good way to renew our interest in it. Among many possible choices, Dr. Seuss is a great American author to honor during National Reading Month.

He is the grandson of immigrants to this country, and his journey to becoming a successful author is one of initial failure, trial and error, hard work and luck. His work also exemplifies what is best about literature geared toward children:

• It engages the senses though musical language and captivating images.
• It tells engaging stories with interesting characters.
• Beyond the literal meaning of the story being told there are lessons and meaning to be taken.

This month, I would like to explore those three facets of children’s literature. Understanding and implementing them where developmentally appropriate can help us as parents and teachers to better engage with our children and students through the written word. And that is something that we must do.

​Not only is the richness of the human experience to be found in books, but from a young age we should instill in children a love and respect for books. Books can help a parent and child bond as they share them during young childhood; books can be a means of solitary discovery or of developing self-awareness for an adolescent; but ultimately, a good book can help us to overcome our divisions through the magic of meaningful language.

By Berenice Rushovich, Kelly Murphy, and Jessica Dym Bartlett

The number of American children in foster care has increased for the fourth consecutive year, from approximately 397,000 in 2012 to 438,000 in 2016. While almost all children in foster care have a history of exposure to trauma (e.g., neglect, physical abuse, domestic violence, parental substance abuse), most child welfare systems are not equipped to provide trauma-informed care (TIC) to children, families, or resource parents (foster parents and kinship caregivers). While there is little evidence about which trauma-informed approaches are most effective in child welfare systems, Child Trends recently evaluated two specific models, finding them to be promising approaches for improving outcomes.

Resource parents and child welfare staff are often insufficiently prepared to manage challenging behaviors from children who have experienced trauma, putting caregivers and staff at increased risk for burnout, secondary traumatic stress, staff turnover, and foster home closures. To address this issue, several TIC models have been adapted for use in child welfare systems. Typically, such models train staff, resource parents, and other adults in children’s lives to recognize and respond effectively to traumatic stress reactions, to integrate screening and assessment into care, and to refer children who have been exposed to trauma to evidence-based and evidence-informed treatments.

Read the rest of the article here.

​We need your help.
 
The HIVE (High Impact Volunteer Engagement) team is undertaking the next step for their project — finding a Planning Wizard and team of volunteers to help create, plan, and run a family fun day along with their Born to Run 5K Race.
 
We are actively seeking volunteers from the community to fill these positions. The team will work for approximately seven months to create, plan, and run a family fun day and the 5K race fundraisier to be held on Sept. 22. They will work with the support of the HIVE team and resources available from TLC.
 
Following last year’s race, several staff members talked about expanding the event to include fun educational games for families. When the opportunity to learn more about how to engage high impact volunteers through the HIVE program came along, it seemed like a natural fit to combine the two and achieve some strategic goals, such as increasing funding and collaboration with other organizations throughout Sullivan and lower Grafton counties.
 
This is an excellent opportunity for people to become involved with TLC without having to make a major commitment and contribute to the community by offering an event that appeals to runners and families. The 5K race is our biggest fundraising event all year. Expanding it to include a family fun day was a natural progression.
 
Volunteers should be 16 years or older and available to meet every two weeks either at TLC’s office or virtually. Interested candidates must sign-up through the VolunteerNH website. The deadline for volunteers to sign up is Friday, March 16.
 
More information about the opportunities can be found at https://tinyurl.com/ycd927nl.
 
HIVE is a competitive program organized by the NH Center of Nonprofits in conjunction with VQ Volunteer Strategies of Denver, CO. The program offers nonprofit agencies the opportunity to explore trends and best practices in volunteer engagement and support the organizations as they pilot one strategic innovation in volunteer engagement that will measurably build capacity. During the year, participating nonprofits will receive training, tools, and coaching both individually and with collaboratively with all the participants.